Things I Want to Tell My Future Daughter About Sex

Sex is great.

And I don’t care why you do it the first time.

Whether it’s love or it’s to experiment it’s your choice.

I don’t care about the age, race, or gender of the person you give it to.

The only thing I don’t want to hear is that you did it to keep him or to feel loved.

Because I will always love you and you will always be mine.


Please wait until you’re 18.

If he loves you he’ll wait.

If it isn’t love, try a vibrator.

In the meantime make out with all the guys you want.

After sex enters the picture, it won’t ever seem as exciting.

So makeout with anyone you fancy.

Soft and sweet. Hot and heavy.

Soak it all in now.


Sex is fun. Sex is messy. Sex hurts sometimes.

There is pain that feels good and there is pain that feels bad.

Learn where you draw the line

Then guard it.

No one else can do it for you.

“No” is a complete sentence.

You’re allowed to use it at anytime.


Slut. Whore. Bitch.

People will use these words to shame you.

Don’t let it affect your choices.

Whether you keep your actions private

Or you flaunt your endeavors

Do what is right for you.

But don’t ever tear another girl down for acting differently.

Stand up for yourself but don’t become the bully.


Sex is a choice.

Do it. Don’t do it. It’s your decision.

Own it.

If you made a bad decision, learn from it.

If you changed your mind, commit to it.

I know talking about sex with your mother

can be awkward.

You don’t even need to talk.

But if you can’t be honest with yourself

about your feelings to anything I’ve talked about,

darling, you aren’t ready.

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